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Jul 14, 2009

This sucks

It just keeps getting worse.
My sis in law that is getting a divorce from my brother has been around as long as I can remember. I actually remember her better than my brother growing up. I really looked at her like a sister as she did me and we have been really close for the last 12 years. They were the ones that went to the races with us the other day.
She just deleted me from her friends on Facebook. That is how me and her always talked.
This sucks. I think I just lost my sister of 26 years.

9 comments:

Unknown said...

Wow, that's really rough, I'm sorry to hear that. This is going to be an ugly one then.

Hugs and prayers going out to you April!

shortmama said...

Wow. Im floored really. I dont understand why that would be necessary. Im so sorry.

Anonymous said...

sorry to hear that. :( i hate how family drama can do that to the people that really aren't involved.

Carrin said...

The sucky part is now you are put in the middle of something that has nothing to do with you. I'm sorry your SIL is being like this.

Melissa said...

Awww, that sucks!!! I hope you two can "rekindle" your friendship!!

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry. :(

vixen kitten said...

First of all *hugs*. I'm sorry this is all happening.

Sometimes people assume you will choose a side. She may be using facebook to vent about your brother, and may feel it would hurt you or upset you if you read it.

If you have had a strong friendship / sister type relationship all these years, I would try emailing or calling her. Let her know you value her friendship, and you want to stay neutral in whatever happens between her and your brother. Reassure her that you want a relationship with her separate from the one you have with your brother.

Don't forget that if they have been together for 26 years, there has to be a lot of hurt happening in her own heart right now.

Sending lots of prayers for all involved.

xoxo
~vk~

Anonymous said...

I'm sure she's just angry and bitter right now. Don't take it personally K?

Who in there right frame of mind would ever delete you from thier facebook friends??

Gwen said...

Oh honey. I'm so sorry she's hurt you like that. Just remember she's battling her own demons and it has nothing to do with you personally. You are too sweet to be "unfriended" by anyone!!! XOXO