Need some help!

Edit at bottom! There is a giveaway you gotta check out!

Yup, root canal Monday. Sounds like fun. I can't wait! Note the sarcasm.

Anywaaay, I got Little Man back finally. It seems like he's been gone forever while I tried to get everyone healthy. So he is home and all is well in our household. I love him so much and missed him like crazy. But, he has a problem and I don't know how to fix it. And that is killing me.

Basically, we have completely different personalities. I have realized Toot is just like me and we can talk forever but with Little Man, it's kinda forced. This makes me sad but I don't know what to do about it.

Here is the problem. There is a kid (we will call him C) at school that is being an ass to him. Little Man really wears his heart on his sleeve and always thinks people are mad at him. If I say "Hey, don't do... whatever he's doing at the time" he always asks if he's in trouble or if I'm mad. EVERYTIME. That drives me crazy. Anyway, back to C. Little Man gets his feelings hurt so easy. I don't know what to say to him about it. C is a little shit but isn't hitting, threatening, or even calling him names. Just being real annoying. He's like that with everyone. I want to tell Little Man to just ignore him and not worry about it but he wont. I have talked to the mother and this kid gets in major trouble for this but keeps doing it. (She is a friend of mine.) I told Little Man that C had a REALLY hard life (biological parents are crack heads) until he was 5 and my friend adopted him (which Little Man already knows all about) and that the kid just doesn't quite know how to treat others and to just ignore him. I guess that was the wrong thing to say too because it didn't seem to help. But when Little Man is mean to Toot or Smiley (for no reason, he's moody) I always ask him "How would you like it if they treated you that way?" That way, he knows everyone is mean sometimes.

When Toot has problems with people being mean, I can just say "Ahh, who needs them. Make another friend that is nice." and it works. She is like me. 'If ya don't like me, go away. I don't need ya.' She blows it off and she's fine. We are so much alike, it kinda scares me. If Toot or Little Man is mean to Smiley, he just walks away and doesn't give it a second thought.

Hubby is the same way. If someone doesn't like him, screw them. Not his loss. But I can't seem to get Little Man to understand this. He wants to please them all and doesn't understand why he can't. I feel so bad for him but don't know how to handle it. I don't know what to say or do to make it better other than what I have already tried. I've said a lot "We can't please everyone and everyone is not going to like us. Some kids are just jerks." I have never told him to 'just get over it'. I am very compassionate and let him vent about it, I just don't know what to say.

So, does anyone have any advise? I know I can't stop C from being such a jerk, I just wish Little Man could handle it.

Edit:

On a happier note, go check out Brandy at Not Your Average Soccer Mom. She has a great blog and is doing her very first giveaway! It is a super cute stocking full of goodies! So go enter now!

Thank You!!!

So today over at A Daily Dose of Toni, she was having a live contest to win a trial size of Bare Minerals Foundation. I was determined to win and I think I actually commented the most. I was 1 off both times (I missed the first two because of the kids) and was a little sad that I was soooo close but happy for those that did win.



That is until I received an e-mail from her saying that a Secret Santa is giving me my choice of Bare Minerals (but still happy for the winners). Woo Hoo! I actually get the color that the winners don't pick but that's cool. I feel like I'm the lucky one.



So I wanted to say a big THANK YOU to Toni and to my Secret Santa!!!!!! Also, if the color isn't right for me, I will be giving it to someone else (with the right skin tone) that can use it and enjoy it. Win-win situation!



Also, make sure and go check out Toni's blog at A Daily Dose of Toni because she has a giveaway for a new Hana Elite 1.5" flat iron from Misikko that is so cool and some other really cool stuff. You can't go wrong checking out her blog. Trust me.

Wordless Wednesday...Zues

My other Baby, Zues. (I know his name is spelled wrong. That's how I wanted it.)

He was my very wonderful, loving lap dog that is no longer with us. He was a great dog and family member. He is always missed.


For more Wordless Wednesdays (even though mine has words), go check out Punky Monkey's. You will find some good pictures along with some good blogs.

I so cried just posting this.

Also, Gwen at Confessions of a Control Freak has updated her giveaway and made it even better! Go check it out!

Give Aways by Gwen and then me

So Gwen at Confessions of a Control Freak is doing a give away to celebrate her 100th post and I really really want it. I have never won anything in my life so I am practically begging for this one. Plus, I love what she is giving away. ALSO, she is one month free of smoking. That is so awesome. I know how hard that is being a smoker myself. Nasty nasty habit, I gotta quit! She is the one that deserves a give away. Girl, e-mail me your address and I will send you something really cool like a CD of my Hubby singing (it's professionally done, not just something I recorded)! Trust me, you do deserve it. *Anyone else that wants one, look at bottom of post for requirements.*

Also, I did what I said I would do here. And I am going to use it to show you the cute purse I bought (for $14 at Wal-Mart) that I love. That is saying a lot because I don't carry a purse. EVER. And now I am.

It holds all my stuff plus my new camera and now I don't have to try and shove everything in my pockets.

I wish I could take a picture of my new love but it's kinda hard to take a picture of a new camera with that camera. Sorry, but it is so cool and pink. I'm so happy!

Also, anyone that chooses to follow me (or already is) and comments, I will give you a CD too. Make sure to leave your e-mail address in the comment (or e-mail it to me at halladh@aol.com) and I will get it to you. You can thank Gwen at Confessions of a Control Freak for me feeling so generous.