I'm betting this is brave of me!

I'm gonna ask a question and I am assuming I am brave for asking.

If you believe a woman should only be able to choose to have an abortion if it is rape, incest, likely to kill the mother, or the baby is severely mentally disabled, are you pro-choice or pro-life?

I have always considered myself pro-life but I agree that only in those circumstances should she get to choose.
I was told today that because I feel that way, I am pro-choice. I do not agree with abortion for any other reason. I also do not look at it as a woman's right. Why should I have the right to abort my husbands/boyfriends/one night stands child (in cases of rape/incest, father should have no rights)? Actually, I think Rowe vs Wade is against fathers rights. Just my opinion.

So am I pro-choice or pro-life? Or are these labels just as stupid as other labels?