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Mar 19, 2009

I use to think...

money grew on trees.

Back when I was a kid, I use to get so mad at my parents. I mean really, who didn't. I would get mad at them for things that I thought were so important. Most of the time I got mad because I wanted something and they wouldn't give it to me.

One of the main things I wanted was my own phone line. This was before everyone and their dog had cell phones. It was an pretty big deal to have your own line and I, like everyone else, wanted my own. With a family of five, chances are someone was on the phone and I didn't like that.

We (my brothers and I) got our own ring but that still wasn't good enough. It was still the same line, just different number. I actually still remember that number to this day.

I never got why it was such a big deal. I mean, they both had jobs, so how could it be such a problem. It's not like I was asking for a car. Yet. But, no matter how hard I pushed, they wouldn't budge. I just never got it while I was a child.

And then I had kids. NOW I get it. No, one phone line isn't that expensive but when you add up all the little things, they add up to a ton. My parents had soccer stuff, softball stuff, swimming stuff, cable TV, food, gas, school lunches, clothes, house pmt, electric pmt, and everything else that comes with living to pay for. I don't know how they did all what they did but now I am so grateful for it.

Ya, I use to think money grew on trees. Now I know that someone has to work their ass off for all that money that pays all the 'little' things that add up to so much. Thankfully, my wonderful husband has taken on that responsibility all himself to allow me to stay home and raise our three beautiful babies.

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10 comments:

Sheri and George said...

You mean that tree I have growing out in my back yard isn't going to produce any money? Damn!
I think all kids assume there is money for everything they want as they grow up and it isn't until we become parents ourselves that we realize where money comes from.
So glad you have the chance to stay home with your kids, enjoy every moment of it.

Gwen said...

Oh my goodness!!! I wanted my own phone line too!!! I even went as far as setting it up to be installed and had a personalized number (the last 4 numbers spelled out Gwen). I would have gotten away with it too if the wouldn't have needed to run the wire up the side of Dad's house. They had to have his approval for that. I even had a job and was going to pay for everything myself but he put a stop to it. But I'm glad he did because what a waste of money that would have been. :)

But...I was working downtown when cell phones came out. Dad purchased one for me and paid for the service because he didn't want me stuck in traffic without a way to call anyone. I guess he really does love me. Maybe I can get him to pay the cell phone bill now. :)

XOXO

Carrin said...

It amazes me that the kids think that since I have a debit card that I must always have money! They just don't understand the concept yet!
I think that it's great that you are able to stay home with your kids! Too bad Benny's hours suck sometimes in order to do that.

Cupcake Dessert said...

that would be awesome right!! i think it's a fine line with parents between not letting them know that money is a problem but letting them know that nothing is free.. i think your parents did a great job not stressing you about money!! thanks for sharing!!

Brandy said...

I thought checks meant money, having no idea you needed money for checks. =}

My middle sis and I had our own phone line for about 2 days. One of the conditions of getting it was no late night calls, and no hang ups (people avoiding the parents) so it didn't last long.

Anonymous said...

I wanted my own phone line too! And my parents put so many restrictions on using the phone...it was a constant battle.

Melissa said...

It's funny how we never "understand" that kind of stuff until we are living it......... and having to explain it to our own kids!!!

Summer said...

i wish it did though~!

Anonymous said...

I know, it's sad that as kids we don't realize how much our parents do for us.


(And I did have my own phone line ;)

shortmama said...

Funny I find myself saying this to my oldest now. When all the "next time youre at the store" or "can I have" and the "I want, I want, I want!" are driving me nuts, I hear myself asking her if she thinks money grows on trees or does she think that her daddy is out working hard every day for it. She knows the answer but still doesnt really get it